By Serita Acker, Executive Director, PEER WISE at Clemson University
One of the most common myths I hear from students—especially first-years—is this: “If I’m in STEM, I won’t have a social life.”
Let me say this clearly: that’s simply not true.
I’ve worked with thousands of students over the years, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that success in STEM is not just about studying long hours and grinding through labs. It’s also about connection, community, and taking care of yourself.
Our PEER WISE mentors are living proof. They’re studying engineering, computer science, math—you name it. They’re passing tough classes and showing up for their friends. They’re attending office hours and planning movie nights, game nights, and study sessions that turn into friendships.
The key? Balance.
STEM is rigorous, no doubt. But when students build in time to recharge, laugh, and connect with others, they don’t fall behind—they thrive. I’ve seen students do better academically because they had people around them cheering them on. A coffee break with a friend, a walk around campus, or even just sitting with someone in silence while working—it all adds up.
At PEER WISE, we don’t just focus on grades. We care about your whole experience. That’s why we offer community circles, mentorship, and spaces where you don’t have to choose between being a serious student and a whole person. You’re allowed to do both.
So if you’re just starting out and you’ve been told to buckle down and disappear into your books, I’m here to tell you: Make time for joy, too. Join a club. Call your mom. Go to that cookout. Celebrate your wins—big or small.
Because the truth is, the best engineers, scientists, and innovators aren’t just smart. They’re well-rounded, compassionate, and connected. And those qualities are built as much outside the classroom as in it.
You belong here—and yes, you can bring your whole self with you.
In your corner,
Serita Acker, Executive Director
